2010年1月6日 星期三

我就像一粒葡萄,只有一層薄薄的皮保護著

我就像一粒葡萄只有一層薄薄的皮保護著                                            I am only thin leather protection of a layer just like a grape


?(一篇很感人的真實報導) (One Very touching true report )  ??


如果你覺得人生灰暗請看看武陵高中楊士賢, 當議論今日青少年物欲橫流的聲音甚囂塵上時,?您可曾想過就在台灣有一個孩子 ?他因為還有錢買下一餐的便當而慶幸自己並不窮             If you think gloomy life, please see military virtuous person Yang, high school of imperial tomb, when not discussing the intersection of teenagers and voice that material desire flow over to arouse a pubic clamour today, You ever thought, just in Taiwan, there is a child ,Is it enough to buy boxed meal of a meal and is happy one’s, If is not poor because he have money?


桃園武陵高中一年級的楊士賢只有一隻神經正在萎縮中的左手臂,父母雙亡目前與輟學就業的弟弟相依為命,四月之前老師同學對他身世知道的就這麼多,因為他從不訴苦也積極參與社團及勞動服務表現和一般同學沒什麼差異,甚至有回校方要幫他申請清寒獎學金時他還婉謝我還過得去可能有人比我更需要。                                                          Yang  of one military high school of imperial tomb of peach garden grade, the left arm in only one nerve is withering, parents pair dies, the younger brother of employment is interdependent with dropping out of school at present, before April, teacher, what classmates knew to his life experience have no many, because he never pours out one's woes, also participate in corporation and services actively, display and have no differences with general classmates, while even having, answering to the school side to help him to apply for the poor scholarship, he also declines saying: ' I also not too bad, someone might need even more than me.


四月間學校邀請一位殘障人士來做朝會演講,請幾位殘障同學上台談激勵楊士賢是其中一位,?訓導主任顏弘回憶當時情景他只是平靜敘述連哽咽都沒有但卻讓師長同學們都掉淚                                                                                                       Among April, the school invites a disability personage to make  the speech in morning meeting , ask several disability classmates to appear on the stage and talk about encouraging, Yang is one of these, The scene was said to instruct and guide director's face and enlarge and remember at that time: ' it is narrated that he is just calm, do not even have to choke with sobs, but let the classmates all of the teacher lose the tears. '   ??


原來十八的楊有一段遠超過老師、同學們想像的坎坷故事,楊士賢的右臂斷送於五那年的一場意外,當時攀吊在電捲門上玩耍的他不慎誤觸遙控器整隻右手被電捲門夾捲壞死,龐大的醫療費已使原本就不寬裕的家境更加困窘,沒想到過幾年開計程車的爸爸又因帕金森氏症倒下,從此生活擔子落到媽媽肩上,媽媽開始到電子工廠做工養家, ?升國一那年暑假爸爸去世不久媽媽發現罹患大腸癌次年便因癌細胞擴散相繼去世,


18 -year-old Yang had a Section to exceed the frustration story that teacher, classmates imagined far originally, Yang's right arm forfeited an accident that year of five years old, climbed he overhanging electric roll door and playing at that time, touch the remote controller by mistake carelessly, the whole right hand is inserted roll necrosis by the electric roll door, the huge medical fee has made the family circumstances not originally well-to-do in a difficult more position, never expect, turn on his father of the taxi  driver again a few years because Parkinson's disease falls down, mother was on the shoulder that the load lives from then on to fall, mother began to go to the electronic factory to work and support the family, When the first middle school on summer vacation of a that year, shortly after his father passed away, mother found that suffered from large intestine cancer, because the cancer cell is spread and passed away in succession next year,


媽媽去世後楊士賢幾度想「跟媽媽走」,但後來一轉念決定依媽媽的心願發憤圖強活下去,我想雖然我卑微得像一粒沙子,但只要活著就有改變的機會要是死了就什麼都沒了,      After mother passed away, Yang  thought ' left with mother ' for several times, but thought better of later, determine in accordance with wish of mother, live on hard, I think the intersection of I and getting petty and low a grain of sand of portrait, but is so long as alive, have a chance to change, if has died, not on nothing,


楊士賢與媽媽分離的打擊,將從小自卑封閉、對什麼都不敢懷抱希望的他一寸寸地敲醒了,不僅課業開始進步連在校的人際關係都慢慢寬闊起來,從小同學們嫌我髒臭笑我吃便當笨拙的模樣像狗我很怕與人接觸,加上家庭背景的因素同學們談笑的容我幾乎都插不上嘴, 因此我非常孤單有時功課不懂鼓起最大的勇氣問同學,人家只要有一點點不耐煩我就退縮很難過自己為什麼那麼差勁,楊士賢回想過往覺得自己實在太傻了,因為他現在知道逃避只是浪費時間,實實在在面對問題才是解決之道                                                                              Yang  said, the blow separating for mother, would feel self-humiliation and close, dare to cherish he who hopes to nothing while as a child, strike and wake up slow, not merely the lessons begin to progress, even interpersonal relationships at school are getting wide slowly, hate me to be dirty and bad smell from little classmate, laugh at me wipe out the clumsy look of boxed meal and look like dogs, I am very afraid that keep in touch with people, add the factor of the family background, I can not nearly all insert the mouth in content that the classmates talk and laugh, so I am very lonely, the homework does not understand, heave the biggest courage to ask classmates sometimes, so long as others have, impatient of little by little, I shrink back, very sad oneself why be disappointing then, virtuous to recall passingly person ,Yang, think oneself really too silly, because he knows now that escapes just killing time, it is a solution in the face of the problem to be true,


另外他也明白了,?朋友關係是相對的, ?一定要先主動打開自己、關心別人,楊士賢談到這一路走來要感謝的人太多了 ?尤其是國中的國文老師常雲惠和同學謝志傑,有一次作文課老師要同學們用比描寫自己楊士賢寫道「我就像一粒葡萄只有一層薄薄的皮保護著。」常老師誇讚他能表達在感受還送他一本「小王子」那是他擁有的第一本課外書也是他至今最愛的一本書, 這個鼓勵也讓他首次感受到自我肯定的喜悅,                                                                            In addition he has understood too, Friends is relative,  Must open oneself, care about others voluntarily first, Yang mentions through the whole journey, there are too many people to be expressed gratitude to  Especially Chinese teacher Ms Chang  of junior middle school, and classmate Xie , there are article lessons of once, the teacher wanted the classmates by likening and describing oneself, Yang  wrote: ' I am only thin leather protection of a layer just like a grape. ' teacher commend little prince ' that is the first book suitable for outside reading that he has he can express, also a book that he likes most so far, this encourages letting him experience the self- definite happiness for the first time,


小王子裡面提到小王子的朋友狐狸牠喜歡看金色的麥子,?因為每次看到金色麥子就會想起有一樣金色頭髮的朋友小王子,我明白這種友情的感覺真是幸福美好,                         Little prince mention the  intersection of friend and fox of prince say, it likes watching the golden wheat inside the little prince, Because see golden wheat each time, will remember that there is the friend with golden hair little prince equally, I understand the feeling of this kind of friendship is really happy,                                                           


謝志傑綽號猴子因為生命中有了這個朋友,所以香蕉對我來就不只是香蕉了,它總讓我想念起我的朋友和我們共有的時光,                                                                                        thank the will outstanding nickname ‘monkey’, because there is this friend in the life, the banana is not only a banana for me, it always lets me miss my friend, the time that and we own in common,


「猴子」有一次上籃球課時故意他不想打,陪楊士賢蹲在場外看雖然猴子什麼也沒說, ?但那一刻楊士賢好感動自己終於有了一位朋友,樂觀進取的「猴子」常鼓勵楊士賢積極思考對他大有發,                                                                                      ' the monkey ',while once having the basketball lesson, say he does not want to hit, accompanies Yang to squat outside the field looking, though the ‘monkey’ says nothing on purpose, But that time virtuous to move, have one friend finally by oneself while being easy person Yang, optimistic aggressive ' monkey ' encourage virtuous to think actively person Yang often, old and enlightening to him,  ??


楊士賢國中時有次公民課出了一題是非題接近孤獨的同學是一種仁愛的表現,?檢討考卷時有位同學舉手問老師為什麼楊士賢當時覺得那位同學真是太幸福了,幸福到不懂接近孤獨的同學為什麼是一種仁愛的表現, ??「但我寧願自己是不懂這句話的人。                 Yang says, one day citizen's lesson published a question in junior middle school: Close to the behavior that lonely classmates are a kind of kind-heartedness, While examining the examination paper, is there a classmate that raise the hand and ask a teacher why? Yang think the classmate too getting happy really, happiness get, know how, close to lonely classmate why be one behavior of kind-heartedness at that time, He says: ' but I prefer I am the people not knowing this sentence. '


楊士賢話有一種這個年紀少見的篤實靜定, ?他曾怨恨自己的身世及欺負他的人,但現在他感謝斷臂讓他更容易看清人性,感謝窮苦讓他更禁得起磨練, ??同時他了解到每個人有不同的成長環境、發展方向,不能只站在自己的立場評斷別人是錯的, 楊士賢希望自己是個「思想成熟深刻但心很「單純」的人,                                                                                                                                Yang has a kind of this age to fix to speak rarely and honest and sincere and quietly, He has hated one's own life experience and person who bullies him, but he expresses gratitude to and breaks the arm to let him see the human nature clearly more easily now, thank poverty-strickenly and let him able to stand tempering,  He knows at the same time everybody has different growth environment, developing direction, it is wrong not to only stand in one's own position judging others, Yang hopes oneself is one ' the thought is ripe and deep, but very ' simple ' person of heart   ?


他把考上師範大學、將來成為一個很能鼓舞學生的好老師當成目前奮鬥的目標,?至於現實生活上的種種困難他導是看得很開了也習慣了,?唯一不放心的是「比我聰明健壯的弟弟卻沒繼續升學 Enter the education university, become one good and  encourage fine teacher of student regard goal that struggle at present as future ,As for the intersection of reality and in life all sorts of difficulty, he don't mind it .The ones that only worried are ' but the younger brother cleverer and stalwarter than I  has not continued entering a higher school 


武陵高中的十多位老師每月固定捐款作他的生活學雜費,?聽了他的故事以後全校同學更紛紛主動發起一項項溫馨的捐款活動,楊士賢他唯有更用功讀書以報答武陵師生的恩惠,    More than ten teachers of the military high school of imperial tomb, contribute money to do his life tuition and incidental expenses fixedly every month, After listening to his story, the classmates of the whole school initiate warm contribution activities voluntarily one after more another, Yang says, he only studies more hard, in order to repay the favor of military hill teachers and students,


穿著武陵的黃襯衫走在街頭時,?我常想要是媽媽能看到一定很高興、很驕傲,思念媽媽時楊士賢仍有萬般心痛不捨,?但他告訴自己不能再哭了哭是沒有用的 ??只要想到媽媽曾那樣愛他、為他奉獻一生,他就永遠有勇氣抬頭挺胸向前走,想每個人都會有失意,心情低落的時候,           Walked when being in the street in the yellow shirt of the military imperial tomb, I often think if mother can see, must be very glad, very proud, while missing mother, Yang stills have all the different kinds regret that is not given up, But he told oneself can cry any more, it is useless to cry, So long as expect mother has loved him, devoted for all one's life for him like that, he has courage to look up and square one's shoulders and go ahead forever, unless it think by everybody it have frustrated, 


顏回雖居陋室但卻能自得其樂日子怎麼過.日子過得快不快樂,都在於你對自己的際遇怎麼去看,由哪個角度去看.不是嗎? One sage Yen Fei, be occupied humble room face but can days content with one's lot how. It is happy for day to live, lie in you until how go, think own fortune, from which angle is gone to see. Is that right?   


身為一個母親 ,這篇文章時,真的是心疼到不能抑止淚水 .?一隻勇敢揮著殘翼的小鷹,如此孤單的飛翔在舉目無親的紅塵中,想必他天上的母親,正心疼地期待著孤雛的振翅高飛,                           As a mother, while writing this article, really love to and can't restrain the tear. A brave little hawk which is waving the incomplete wing, such lonely one hovers in the friendless and kinless human society, I believe his mother in the heaven, is looking forward to orphan's young fluttering its wings up and down and soaring loving, ??


一個母親最深的無奈, ?就是無法陪伴孩子的成長,我深切為他祈禱著 ?但願坎坷之後會是一條光明大道,也但願人間有著更多的溫情伴他成長.


A mother's deepest helplessness,  Can't accompany the child's growth, I am deep to pray for him, I wish it will be the main road of a brightness after the frustration, also if only more tender feeling accompanied him to grow up in human world.


這一篇短文值得您花時間 與家人分享,更期盼若能觸動您的心弦,也請與週遭的朋友分享!


This article is worth your spending time sharing with family, expect even more that if can touch your chord, also please share with the friend in the surrounding area!


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