以祝福取代擔心 Prays for heavenly blessing to replace worry

以祝福取代擔心 Prays for heavenly blessing to replace worry

 

我有一位朋友他在做電視企畫與採訪,他告訴我因為常常需要加班，日夜顛倒 。 因與家人同住，所以他媽媽常會擔心，常唸他：要記得吃飯，別太晚睡，開車要小心等等，這樣的嘮叨每天反覆好幾次， 朋友剛開始很煩,但慢慢就習以為常。

I have a friend he was doing TV Planning and interviews, he told me because it often requires overtime, day and night reversed 。Because live with family, his mother's regular meeting worries, often read to him: Should remember having a meal, don't go to bed too late, should wait a moment carefully while driving, such chattering repeats for several times every day, the friend just started to be very bothersome, but have slowly become accustomed

 

只是有時朋友也會覺得不耐煩，一見到母親就想逃，免得聽她囉嗦半天。有一次朋友赴花蓮採訪證嚴法師，聽到證嚴法師說一句話，他覺得很有道理。

But sometimes my friend will also feel impatient want to escape when see his mother, so as not to listen to her and say another word for quite a while. One time the friend went to Hualien interview with Master Cheng Yen ,  He heard Master Cheng Yen said a word, he felt makes sense.

 

她說：「如果一個父母常常擔心他的孩子，他的孩子會沒有福氣；因為福氣都被父母給擔心掉了。」

She says: [if one parents worry child of him often, child of him will have not good fortune; Because the good fortunes have been all worried losing by parents. '

 

她又說：「如果父母希望他的孩子有福氣，就要多多祝福他的孩子，而不是擔心她的孩子。」
 She says again: [if parents hope his child has a good fortune, bless his children more, but not worry about her child.]

 

朋友聽到這樣的話十分興奮，一回到家馬上轉述證嚴法師的話給他媽媽聽。

The friend heard these words to be very excited , When he come back home immediately relayed the words of Master Cheng Yen to his mother

 

朋友說，從此以後，他母親就很少再對他嘮叨了，他看到母親也不會再躲，反而在下班之餘，會找母親聊聊天，他覺得現在他跟母親像朋友一般自在

The friend says, hereafter, his mother seldom chatters to him。 He saw his mother would no longer hide, He will chat to find his mother when he get off work , he felt he and his mother is now at ease as friends in general.

 

媽媽常常是一家的靈魂人物，她掌握了一個家庭的氣氛，我相信如果沒一個快樂的媽媽，就很難有一個快樂的家庭。

The mother is often the soul of a person in family, she mastered a family atmosphere, I believe that if not a happy mother, it is difficult to have a happy family

然而，大多數的媽媽都過份地擔憂子女：課業，工作，婚姻，健康---幾乎無所不擔心，你想這樣的媽媽會快樂嗎？

However, most mothers too worry the children: schoolwork, work, marriage, health---Nearly nothing which is not worried, do you think such a mother will be happy?

 

用超心理學的潛意識說法，就是所謂的「心想事成」這句話。

Use the ultra and psychological subconscious statement, it is this sentence of the so-called [all one's dreams come true].

 

一件事情如果你用很大的「念力」去相信它，它就會如你所相信的去「實現」你相信的。

一個媽媽如果相信：她的孩子有能力去面對他自己的生活困境與難題，那麼這個相信就是一個「祝福」，而她的孩子也會因著這樣的祝福而蒙福的。

One thing if you go, believe it with a very heavy one [study in strength], it can if what you believe go you believe.

If a mother believes: Her child has the ability to face his own life predicament and difficult problem, last even if one piece [blessing ] then this ,and the children of she can because more last good fortune's blessings such a.

 

相反的，如果一個母親老是「覺得」她的孩子不懂事，不會照顧自己，一定會吃虧上當的，

那麼這個「擔心」很可能就成了「詛咒」，以後你的孩子果然就會如你之前所擔心的那樣，老是出狀況令你擔心。

On the contrary, if one mother [think ], child of her thoughtless, can not look after oneself always, it is sure to suffer a loss and is fooled,

This piece [anxious]to become just probably then child of you can if you afraid like that really later, always having troubles makes you worry.

 

你的願有多大，實踐的力量就有多大。從今天起，我們當要當心去檢查自己的每個「念頭」，你對孩子：是擔心多？還是祝福多呢？

Wishing how it is big, how great the strength of practice is of you. From today we as wanting to take care to go to check one's own each [thought], you are to the child: Anxious and many? Is it many to bless?

 

真的，愛你的孩子，與其擔心，不如祝福吧！其實對於我們所關心的人，不管是家人、朋友、情人、恩人、師長、同學、同事等，也都要給予全部的祝福來取代擔心的心情，

Really, love your child, is not so good as blessings instead of being anxious!

In fact to the person that we care about, no matter family, friend, lover, benefactor, teacher, classmate, colleague , etc… replace mood worried about,

 

這樣，不用因擔心掛念而讓自己睡不著，是雙贏囉！因為，心想事成，我們的祝福一定會實現的，從現在起，把擔心丟掉，讓祝福常在。

so,  Don’t need let oneself unable to fall asleep because of worrying concerning about for all blessings too, it is the win-win! Because all one's dreams come true, it is sure to realize that we bless, from now on, lose worrying, make the blessing everlasting.

 

祝你， 幸福美滿 Wish you, happy I wish you happiness(曾有田)